Leave quibbling of every kind to lawyers pleading at the bar for the life of a culprit; in society and conversation it is invariably out of place, unless when Laughter is going his merry round. At all other times it is a proof of bad breeding….

Cheerfulness, unaffected cheerfulness, a sincere desire to please and be pleased, unchecked by any efforts to shine, are the qualities you must bring with you into society, if you wish to succeed in conversation. … a light and airy equanimity of temper,—that spirit which never rises to boisterousness, and never sinks to immovable dullness; that moves gracefully from “grave to gay, from serious to serene,” and by mere manner gives proof of a feeling heart and generous mind.

Martine’s Hand-book of Etiquette, and Guide to True Politeness, 1866.  I read etiquette handbooks at an impressionable age, and ever since have had a vision of society and proper behavior that is out of step with the modern age.  (via Brain Pickings)

Shawn Achor: The happy secret to better work

Aaron Dignan: How to Use Games to Excel at Life and Work

I want to roll around in this talk and never come out. Play as experiential learning! Objectives, skills, outcomes! Real-time feedback!  Banish the boredom forever.

As an erstwhile game designer of a sort (a specialized, niche occupation), I recognize so many of these forces. Not only on the play of a game, but in how the design phases progress and the reason I keep coming back for more, glad of the new work.

Note to self: share with the office.

Web 2.0 Summit 2011: Chris Poole, “High Order Bit” (via The Curious Brain)

Identity is prismatic. There are many lenses through which people view you. And we’re all multifaceted people.

I think I just fell in love with him.

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